MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF

Make Peace  With Yourself 
Still talking about peace.
One needs to learn how to make peace with his or herself. Most people in the world are troubled and fail in every aspect of their life because they fail to make peace within, fail to forgive and forget, fail to reconcile with their self, and learn to stop proving worth to others.  A wise man once said "Be a good person but do not waste time to prove it". The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely and utterly walk away.  Don't be afraid to walk alone, "remember you never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice".

Here are some guidelines which can make you find peace within :

•   Make Peace With God (Creator) :  First,  you have to make peace with God your creator. Learn how to pray,  ask  for favour,  ask for forgiveness,  praise and appreciate for things he's done. Trust me,  without God you wouldn't be alive today. Whatever you are worrying about, just know that God's got you,  he has a plan for you,  trust him and keep going. God can turn any situation around for the better, your hard times will end just keep praying and trusting him.

• Think Positively : When you think or focus on problems,  you will have more problems,  but when you focus on opportunities, you will have more progress.  Over thinking ruins you,  ruins the situation, twist things around, makes you worry more, and just makes everything worse than it actually is.  Set your soul free. Always think positively in any situation, think about the possibilities and opportunities not the opposite.

•   Tolerability :  You don't ever have to tolerate people who treat you poorly, it doesn't matter if it's a friend, a family member or a partner,  it doesn't matter how long you've known them for, how nice they have been to you in the past,  you are allowed to call people out on their bad or abusing behaviour. You are allowed to set boundaries about what you are and what you are not willing to tolerate. If you keep silence, you not only not making peace with the individual and yourself, you are also killing yourself slowly.

• Learn To Forgive :    Forgiving is a very hard action to carry out.  As described by the great philosopher Mahatma Gandhi "Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong, the weak can never forgive.  Learn how to forgive your enemies, families and your friends. I know it's harder to forgive someone closer to you than to forgive and enemy you had known,( being hurt by a friends is like a hundred stab in your heart). Forgiveness is finding a way to make peace with yourself and God,  although it is not an easy task but you should try to make peace with your past, your friends and enemies,  and yourself.  As written in both the Bible and Qur'an, forgive and the lord shall forgive you, to earn God's forgiveness,  you must first make peace with yourself by forgiving others.

•   Be Unique, Be Yourself : A friend once told me,  if someone comments on you that you are different; it is always a complement , meaning either they like your personality or wishes to be like you.  Be yourself, Be unique don't ever change for any body.

MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF AND THE WORLD IS YOURS.
•Thanks!